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The New Home Maker Getting It Started Right

Jan 21, 2014 | Posted by:  abi s


Homemaking has changed a lot since the “leave it to Beaver era”. Women are not content to clean and cook their lives away. When you get married there are certain expectations that you will have and he will have some too. Before things get out of control there is a discussion the two of you should have.                                                   
                the new home maker
Living together can be a potential powder keg. There will be hurt feelings, arguments about little things and heated discussions about toothpaste caps. Unfortunately not all of them are avoidable. While it is a good thing that opposite’s attract they can also make living together a bit of a tango.
 
Our advice to the new homemaker to help make the new house feel like a home is listed below:
 
  1. Communication is extremely important. It is now that you will set the stage for the rest of your lives. One tip that has worked for many couples is to set ground rules for disagreeing with each other. There are learning to fight fair is a way to get through the inevitable conflicts without losing respect for each other. Words hurt and once out there, they can never be unsaid. Fighting fair takes a commitment from both of you. Some pre-wedding counselors you suggest that you write down your personal rules of engagement and sign them.
  1. Take accurate measurements of each room and take photographs. These will help you avoid arguments and headaches on moving day.
  1. While it is tempting to denigrate the new home with fashionable new pieces. It may not always be practical. Start by picking items from each person’s belongings. Set aside the items that you both agree on. Remember these good feeling when you get to an item that will cause contention. The decision does not have to be made right away if you disagree, agree to disagree and come back to that item at another time.
  1. Remember that it is not personal. When you merge two households, or two dorm rooms. It is not likely that all that stuff will fit into you are square footage. If you had your apartment he had his own apartment and together you have bought a house unless you have a living room and a den something will have to go. Start with the stock that you are not so emotionally attached to and work your way backward. Remember, once you got married your stuff became his stuff too.
 
These are just a few examples of things you can do when starting your new life together. Decorating the house is easy compared to making it a home, you do this by filling it with your traditions and keeping it from a free.
 

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4 Comments
Post By:willsonCreated Date:Apr 10, 2014
 
Nice home decor and ideas. It's useful for all home decorator and house keepers.
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Post By:JasmineCreated Date:Jan 21, 2014
 
Nice tips for the young couples who just going to begin their new life and new home making it would help them to live a happy life by following this advises.
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Post By:JasmineCreated Date:Jan 21, 2014
 
Nice tips for the young couples who just going to begin their new life and new home making it would help them to live a happy life by following this advises.
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Post By:markCreated Date:Jan 21, 2014
 
it is a nice idea for select wedding home i was so beautiful thanks for the blog
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