Use the free wedding planning iPad and iPhone app to avoid some of these common mistakes. Many relationships have been ruined during the wedding planning process. The entire process lends itself to power struggles, arguments with loved ones and in-laws to be and each other. Many brides and grooms begin to forget what the wedding is really about, the union of their lives, their loves and living happily ever after. Below are a few of the major issues that you should avoid at all cost in the wedding planning
If you have ever watched the show “Say Yes to the Dress” you have seen brides who get caught in the people pleasing trap. They literally give away all of their power in an attempt to please others. From the dress to the menu it is all for you and it is your right to say what will be. The rule of thumb here is “Don’t give others too much power”
Never forget what the wedding is, a beginning, not a destination. When this happens to you become what we have come to term a “Bridezilla”. For them it is all about the wedding, the obsess over it and they become intolerable to the point that many want nothing more than to be away from them.
Do not be afraid to say you need help. Many brides get caught trying to do everything themselves this is a bad thing. While giving away too much power is not good trying to do it alone is also away to burn yourself out. This not only frees you up but it gives those closest to you a chance to feel good about adding their part to your special day.
There are those who will feel that since they hold the purse strings they hold the power. We call these “money bullies”, don’t be one and do not become the victim of one. I would wedding in a gunny sack under a tree before I would let someone blackmail me with the money for a wedding. The wedding website used to avoid this kind of problems.
SET AND STICK TO A BUDGET , in America the average wedding runs around $25,000.00, with so many couples paying for their own nuptials it is easy for them to start out their new lives together broke or under so much debt that the marriage fails before it begins. The wedding budget calculator helps to keep your with in your budget
With the free wedding planner app from iwedplanner and the helpful tips and ideas that you find there will keep your wedding plans on the right track. The wedding budget calculator will keep you from overspending and the wedding seating chart and other lists will make organizing the events easier. Try it for yourself, all that you have to lose is stress.